5 Reasons to Get Feedback Before Deciding Your Kid Can Act

Tis the season to watch TV Reality Talent Shows. I admit to both loving and hating them.

The final ten are usually tremendously talented individuals and a real joy to watch. This is the part I love.

The first few episodes are pure torture. I watch, cringing, peaking through my fingers the same way I watch horror movies if I ever make the mistake of watching one.

Don’t ask me why I even watch except that prurient cringe factor.

Anyway, watching some of these people very seriously go up in front of millions of people to make complete fools of them selves begs the question “What were you thinking?”

I know some are in it for the thrill or the laugh or the 15 minutes of fame, but many appear to seriously believe they are good. Did they ever look at them selves on tape or take a class to get feedback or even ask a disinterested party before stepping on stage?

All too many people and parents of outgoing kids make the same mistake, although not so publicly. Your child is adorable, smart, a natural, a ham – let’s move to Hollywood!

Before you do – Get a Second Opinion – preferably not from someone related to you and doesn’t want to hurt your feelings. Here are some places to try first.

1. Professional Acting Classes
There are a lot of classes in most cities. Find one that has been attended by “real” actors and is kid friendly.

2. Enter Local Contests
My kids danced with a very competitive dance troupe. I always appreciated the competitions that gave written feedback along with a score. They have nothing to gain by telling you are great if you aren’t.

3. Make sure the contest is legitimate
Some groups run contests specifically to build their client list. Some of these are good with reputable companies with real worthwhile services to sell. Some are not. They will tell you what you need to hear to get you to put your kid in their class or buy their product. So buyer beware.

4. Audition for Community Theatre
Like contests, some community theatre is good and reputable and put on good, professional productions. Some are delusional people who want their own 15 minutes. Check them out, go see a production, read reviews, if they appear professional, then audition.

5. Open Mic, Karaoke or Talent Night
Attend an open forum with people who don’t know you and listen to the audience. If they are booing, it’s not because they are jealous of your kid’s talent. This could be a clue that your child needs to work on their act before going global.